Introduction: Connected to the Throne Family ties (Silat Al-Rahim) are so sacred in Islam that Allah derived their name from His own name, Al-Rahman (The Most Merciful). The Prophet ﷺ told us that the womb (ties of kinship) holds on to the Throne of Allah, saying, "Whoever keeps me connected, Allah keeps him connected; and whoever severs me, Allah severs him."
The Ultimate Reward: Wealth & Longevity Everyone wants more money and a longer life. The Prophet ﷺ gave us the simplest formula for both: "Whoever would like his provision to be increased and his life to be extended, let him maintain his ties of kinship." It’s a divine promise. When you take care of your relatives, Allah takes care of your sustenance and health.
Who is the True "Connector"? Connecting isn't just visiting those who visit you; that is merely "reciprocating." The Prophet ﷺ defined the true maintainer of kinship as: "The one who joins ties when they are severed." It means being kind to the uncle who ignores you, or calling the cousin who speaks ill of you. This requires a big heart and immense patience.
Practical Ways to Maintain Ties
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Financial Help: Charity given to a poor relative is double the reward (Charity + Silat Al-Rahim).
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Communication: A simple text, a call, or checking up on them counts.
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Forgiveness: Ignore petty family feuds over inheritance or gossip. Forgive them for the sake of Allah.
Conclusion Don't let pride or old grudges cut you off from Allah's mercy. Be the first to pick up the phone. You are doing business with Allah, and He never lets a good deed go unrewarded.